Hrm, I could have sworn I replied with a thank you note and my experiences detailing my adventures installing SSH (yes, I decided to go the ssh route)... but it was late and I was tired; perhaps I clicked the CANCEL button instead of POST. sigh.
Sorry. But thanks, I've decided to go the SSH route... It wasn't automatically installed by Mdk 9 but I found it on the ISOs and I used Mandrake Control Center to install it. I had to do the whole key thing and the configure file myself (thank god for the internet!). I'm definately going to do some reading up on ssh (before you mentioned it I'd never heard of it!) later this evening.
But for right now, it works but I do get an error when I start it:
Disableing protocol 1. Could not load host key.
What's protocol 1 vs protocol 2? And if it can't load a key, then why does it work? If it can't find a security key then shouldn't that be a fatal error?
...side note: you can tell I'm a newbie; being able to shut down my linux box completely with a halt command through ssh just made my night last night and all day today

-Tim